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May 6, 2007 - Sunday

4:19 PM - Can family just treat you any old way and its ok?
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At once I thought this was ok. Then at other times I feel I shouldnt have to take anyones crap. Then again, I feel you cant change people and thats just how they are.

Perfect example is my MIL. She has always talked "rudely" to people. She is one of the most loving people I have met in m y life, but if you didnt know her for years and years and years to find that out, you would think she hates the world

Now I am married almost 20 years, 4 kids of my own and been through as much, if not more, in my life then she has. I just dont feel like listening to her rants most times. Yet if I avoid her, then I miss her terribly. On the other hand, when she speaks that way to me, or others ABOUT me, it cuts so deeply I cry

I am told to just let it fall off to the wayside, "you know how she is just ignore it" and all sorts of stuff. Yet I just cant ya know.

Do you think because someone is your own family they can talk badly to you, about you and just make you look and feel like crap but its ok because thats your family?

sigh...

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