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Friday, November 23, 2007

Things I have learned lately

Although I cant say "lately". Its more like things that keep coming up again and again I guess and proving themselves

Like you cant be happy for someone else unless you are happy yourself. I find this to be so true. I genuinely cant be happy for someone when I am totally miserable. I actually feel like dam, why dont they just shut up and die already. Then I find when I am happy and in my right mind, I am so happy for someone else I could cry as if it happened to me

You really can love and hate someone at the same time. I dont know what I would do without Anthony at some times and then at others, GAWD how I hate him. I pray so hard each time he leaves the house that he just have a car accident and die, then I start crying and praying that nothing happens to him and we live to 100 spending each day together.

I have learned that you really can NOT like your own children. You can love them, die for them and not like them as individual people. I dont find this is something one will go to hell over. I just think all people are different and not all get along. Just because you gave birth to them makes it no different

I have watch friend after friend go through this period. Then I finally went through it myself. I really do not like AJ as a person. If I were to just meet him, I would not want to spend any time with him. He is rude to all his friends, very selfish, treats people badly , even his own two year old little brother and doesnt seem to care. He will try to twist a kittens head off and think its ok. I just do not like him as a person.

Its just so much weird things that are coming to my mind lately and all at once. I had no idea that you can go through 100 emotions all in a 10 minute period. I am not sure I am going through this because I am so ill again and thinking so obscurely from lack of sleep or what.

Well just thought I would share the weird stuff in my head today

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Sunday, November 18, 2007

Fw: IAGC - ISBE Budget Hearings

If you have a child in grammar school that is advanced you should check out this site. Its not the best I have seen but this is where I got help with Tyler.
When we moved out here Tyler was in 2nd grade and the work the school was giving him was work he had done in kindergarten and 1st at his previous schools. Tyler was very upset about school and I was getting very frustrated
Of course I did work with him at home, as I always have. In school, however, this was something different. What did it help for my child to spend 6 hours going over 85% of the stuff he already knew?
The school insisted that they could not promote him to 3rd grade because of some new law. Also although his mind was advanced in some things, he was still very immature and would disrupt a class with older children
When Tyler entered the 3rd grade, the school called me about a program called project arrow. They were going to give it a trial run, as they had a few other kids like Tyler and needed my permission. Of course I was all for it!
Today Tyler is in 4th grade and taking 5th grade ADVANCED reading and math. He is a straight A student and this program also challenges his imagination and encourages him to be a child. Finally he is happy in school. Now Taylor is heading on the same path but at least I know I wont have the same frustration as I did before
Check out this program and if your school doesn't offer it, tell them about it. Project Arrow is WONDERFUL and its the best thing to happen to my kids. I now have something in their school that understands not all kids learn at the same pace, I now have a site that I can go to for more information on gifted children and I have other parents that understand what its like to have a 9 year old that can do 9th grade algebra but then cry when you tell him to clean his room

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Subject: IAGC - ISBE Budget Hearings
For those of you that may not be on the Illinois Association of Gifted
Children (IAGC), www.iagcgifted.org, email list, please read the
following important news.
ILLINOIS ASSOCIATION FOR GIFTED CHILDREN
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Illinois State Board of Education
FY 2008 Budget Hearings
The Illinois State Board of Education (ISBE) is holding Budget
Hearings across the state. Julie Luck Jensen, outgoing President of
IAGC, and five parents testified at a hearing on November 2nd in Des
Plaines on behalf of gifted students requesting an increase in the
budget allocation for gifted education.
The parents told their own stories about how public education was not
able to meet the unique needs of their gifted children. Julie Luck
Jensen addressed the issue of low income/high potential students and
referenced the recent report by the Jack Kent Cooke Foundation, The
Achievement Trap.
The three ISBE board members present acknowledged the fact that $5
million is not enough funding and that they have heard from many
supporters of gifted education. The line item for gifted education
was reinstated at $5 million in 2007 after $19.7 million was
eliminated in 2002.
Advocates for gifted education have testified at each of the budget
hearings across the state and their support is greatly appreciated.
IAGC will provide current updates and information as the budget
process unfolds.
For more information, contact Kris McElligatt, IAGC Advocacy Committee
Co-chair, at kmcellig@comcast.net.
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